Planning assigned seating is a big part of planning a wedding and can be stressful for the bride and groom.

Here are some helpful tips and ideas to make planning assigned seating a little less stressful…

First, check with the reception venue (and/or your caterer) about how many tables the site can hold with all of your other activities and space needs, as well as how many people can sit at the table comfortably. Plan the layout of the reception to get an idea of where things will be to get an idea of where guests would be seated. Also decide if guests will assigned to a numbered table vs. an assigned seat at a table.

The bride and groom should be a centrally located table, whether they are seated at a sweetheart table, with your parents or with the wedding party. Start with the most important guests in terms of involvement in wedding reception activities and needing to be centrally located when planning the seating chart, like the wedding party and family, and work your way from there.

I’ve always loved Martha Stewart’s tips for planning your seating because it’s so simple and so, so easy!

This will seriously keep you from losing your mind…Plus, I’m obsessed with sticky notes and this gives me a great excuse to use them.

MATERIALS You’ll Need:

Low-tack adhesive notes of various colors

STEPS

STEP 1

Divide your guest list into categories — such as wedding party, family, our friends, family friends — and assign a different-color low-tack adhesive note to each.
STEP 2

Write out everyone’s names on the appropriately colored strips. You can arrange and rearrange them around simple photocopied outlines of your tables. The note colors show whether you have a good mix at each table.
STEP 3

When it’s time to set out the place cards, tape the notes in place, then hand the completed sheets to the setter.

Make sure table numbers, pictures or some sort of easy identification are on each table and place cards are at each seat to help guests easily find where they should be seated. You will also need escort cards, which are the cards guests pick up to find out where they are seated. Ideally these are organized in alphabetical order so that guests can find their names easily and quickly. We always make sure we also have a clipboard or iPad with a seating chart to assist guests when trying to find their seats to make sure it doesn’t back up at the escort card table.

{All photos above are from Twin Hearts Photography!}

Photo by ZoomWorks Photography

Blessings,

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Thursday, November 7, 2013

Wedding Details - Wreaths

Wreaths aren’t only for hanging on your front door during the holiday season, they are a beautiful decoration for any ceremony or reception venue.

Whether you are having a spring, summer, fall or winter wedding, wreaths are great for anytime of year and can be designed for any wedding theme. They can be hung on the door or windows outside leading into the venue, on the back of chairs, on the side of church pews to line the ceremony aisles, or as a part of the table decorations at the reception. After the wedding you can take them home with you to enjoy as a reminder of your wedding day.

There are several different styles of wreaths to consider, depending on your style and wedding desires.

A greenery wreath with with flower accents look beautiful on these wooden doors.

A dark greenery wreath with a bow accent really stands out on white doors.

Wreaths don’t have to only be outside either! This greenery wreath accent around the cake on a dark table linen is a beautiful table decoration.

A fresh floral wreath is a beautiful decoration for the doors leading into the ceremony.

Wreaths aren’t limited to being made out of florals and greenery ! DIY wreaths are being seen more often – they are simple to make your own and there are countless materials to use, burlap and ribbon being just a couple of the most popular. Adding a monogram of the bride and groom’s initials to the center is a great personalized detail for a wreaths that hangs out the ceremony venue or on the back of the bride and groom’s chairs at the reception. For a more rustic look for an outdoor wedding, wreaths can be made out of moss, sticks or leaves and make for a unique table decoration. Find more ideas and inspiration on our Pinterest boards here!

Photography by Zoomworks Photography and JetKat Photo

Blessings,

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Wedding Details - Planning Assigned Seating